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On Faith

On 14 November 2011 by Diane Lee

A while ago, I was chatting with a friend about her future prospects.  She had just resigned from a long-term job, and been offered a similar role in a sister company.  While she was pleased she had something to go to, there was a nagging feeling that it wasn’t the right move.  I suggested that perhaps a leap of faith might be the order of the day, and she didn’t look convinced.  Later, when I was thinking about the conversation, I decided that it is difficult to have faith in this age of cynics (and I am one).  Then I thought: what is faith?  How do we construct it? And how is it sustained? And I don’t mean faith in the God sense; I mean faith in the “I know things will be ok in the end” sort.

Alain de Botton (in his TV show The Architecture of Happiness, I think it was) declares that pessimists have a better time of life because if the worst happens, they are prepared for it – life turns out exactly as they expect; and if things turn out better than expected, then it’s a bonus.  I’m not a pessimist, and I wish I was, because, according to de Botton, I would probably be living a happier life.

Buddha also said in  Four Noble Truths that existence is suffering, and the cause of suffering is desire. So if one has faith, does that mean one suffers? And I’m not asking this in a disingenuous way, but in a philosophical sense, because surely having faith means that you want (or desire) something to happen: that you’ll get that job, that everything to be ok, that he or she will call, that you won’t lose your house, that your cancer will be cured, that the bullying will stop…

Viktor Frankl said that when we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.  So is faith an essential part of the human spirit that, despite religion and philosophy and politics and ideology, prevails and is part of what makes us human? Is faith so ingrained in us, that despite the direst of circumstances and overwhelming evidence to the contrary, there is a spark that tells us we will prevail?

I don’t know the answers to these questions, but it’s certainly something to ponder.

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5 comments

  • Danae Sinclair 14 November 2011 at 5:31 AM - Reply

    What I’ve learned is that if you have faith there’s no need for either pessimism or wishful/magical thinking because no matter what happens, you believe it is part of a bigger pattern & all will be well. Also, holding faith in yourself and your own life is vastly more important than placing ‘faith’ in some outside force/source or another person.

    Perhaps that spark that tells us that we will prevail comes from observing nature over the eons of our evolution – we’ve noticed that life goes on, that ultimately there is more cooperation than conflict and that the things we get caught up in are of no real consequence in the larger scheme of things – ?

    What a great post Di – my favourite so far!

    • The Diane Lee Show 14 November 2011 at 5:45 AM - Reply

      Thanks Dan! I have been pondering how we *know* everything will be alright… and this post is the result. But I think I have more to write on this topic!

  • Szilvia Virág 26 May 2013 at 2:00 PM - Reply

    Great post. But you know… I actually think faith in God, and faith that things will be ok in the end is all the same.

    • The Diane Lee Show 26 May 2013 at 3:52 PM - Reply

      …and if it’s not ok, it’s not the end 😉

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